http://www.independentbelle.com/index.php/2010/06/hello-mr-heartache-ive-been-expecting-you/ An Independent Belle's life in the city. Mon, 06 Feb 2012 22:52:44 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://www.independentbelle.com/index.php/2010/06/hello-mr-heartache-ive-been-expecting-you/comment-page-1/#comment-150 Melissa Thu, 08 Jul 2010 21:49:06 +0000 http://www.independentbelle.com/?p=741#comment-150 This much I have learned. You must first know yourself. That helps you discover what you want from/in someone else. Which leads to what you need from someone else. I am not saying that you should settle, but MR Right is pretty hard to find. If he was ever out there, someone else has probably already found him. And as my friend Mick said, "You can't always get what you want, but if you try sometime you might just find.....you get what you need. This much I have learned. You must first know yourself. That helps you discover what you want from/in someone else. Which leads to what you need from someone else. I am not saying that you should settle, but MR Right is pretty hard to find. If he was ever out there, someone else has probably already found him. And as my friend Mick said, “You can’t always get what you want, but if you try sometime you might just find…..you get what you need.

]]> http://www.independentbelle.com/index.php/2010/06/hello-mr-heartache-ive-been-expecting-you/comment-page-1/#comment-147 ChicPammy Tue, 29 Jun 2010 00:04:52 +0000 http://www.independentbelle.com/?p=741#comment-147 Some of my experiences along the way did NOT make me stronger or better. I was worn down at times. I was tired of the "flashy" guy, the "look at me guy". You know what happens when you are TIRED? You don't give a shit ..the hair comes down and the confidence goes up.. up ..up. You gain respect..your favorite kind..self respect. The silly dates became hysterical. The rude dates ..lead to the "oh, no he DIDN'T" laughs with the girls. I started to ask the universe for what I wanted pray for my future husband. I think I am close...who knows?? I know I am closer to understanding myself! I love you Belle!! Some of my experiences along the way did NOT make me stronger or better. I was worn down at times. I was tired of the “flashy” guy, the “look at me guy”. You know what happens when you are TIRED? You don’t give a shit ..the hair comes down and the confidence goes up.. up ..up. You gain respect..your favorite kind..self respect. The silly dates became hysterical. The rude dates ..lead to the “oh, no he DIDN’T” laughs with the girls. I started to ask the universe for what I wanted pray for my future husband. I think I am close…who knows?? I know I am closer to understanding myself! I love you Belle!!

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